boring is unbearable if you can’t feel good when you’re all by yourself. this is why people need someone to project their desires in, to feel less lonely and less uncomfortable with themselves.
all good things take time — love is your intention to stay with someone and what you do every day to keep the relationship going.
love often feels “boring” because emotions are transient. and romance is a western myth that sells well :)
love is hard but you get a life partner.