Uh, so much to say about getting kids…
Our self-absorbed generation sees it as a “sacrifice”, hence the smaller families and later pregnancies.
Still, people must not look at getting kids as a means to make their life complete. Having them is a big part of your personality’s tree trunk, but the more branches you have, the richer you are as a person.
Your roots are what YOU are, not what other people make of you. And you are so much.